We are all familiar with the fact that girls are not usually as experienced as men in the subject of tinder hookup and casual dating. Maybe mostly because of women are often socially restricted to some degree on this matter. But women are allowed to hook up just as much as men. If we are given enough opportunities, I’m sure we can do just as good as guys. Today, I will offer some tips to quickly help you get started if you are a newbie in this filed.
Sexual indicates are necessary. Just baring the thought in your mind that you are looking for someone to sleep with, so you need to not only make it clear to yourself, more importantly, to the person you are talking with. Guys might want that, but they might not sure about your intentions. By making sexual indications, you are telling them that you are looking for a hookup dating fun or something casual and you are open to it and that they don’t need to wonder anymore. If they also like you, they can be brave and take a step forward. Guys can pick up such hint easily and make a move from then on. Besides, this is also a way to get the atmosphere a little more spicy and turned on.
Be straight forward. This isn’t simply as you being straight forward about you wanting a one night stand, but more blunt in expression of sexual indicates. Women don’t usually get blocked or reported because of inappropriate words or expressions. You can use the “f” word, “c” word and so on to spice things up. When everyone gets excited and turned on, a one night stand is on the way. Easy, right? You just need to jump out of the box or maybe your comfort zone. Be a little more flexible.
Reduce the expectations of conversation. If you are expecting a deep and meaningful conversation, then forget about it. This is the chance to find one night stand, so meaningful conversations don’t fit in here. One night stand and deep conversation just don’t fit. Second of all, by saying lower your expectations of conversation, I mean don’t expect guys to have a high-standard opening line or others.
When you are hit on by a guy, the first thing in your mind shouldn’t be how good his opening line is, but his appearance, whether he is qualified to your taste to have a one night stand. Therefore, don’t reject a guy just because he doesn’t have a great opening line, but to pay more attention to whether he is attractive to you or not even if his opening line is “Hey, what’s up”.